Alright, let’s talk about something that doesn’t come with a manual (despite what the parenting books claim): creating an emotionally safe space for your kids. You know, the kind of environment where they feel loved, heard, and supported, even when they’ve just painted the cat blue. So, grab a cuppa, and let’s dive into the 7 things emotionally safe parents say. Spoiler: It’s not rocket science, but it’s pretty close to magic.

1. "It's OK to make mistakes; that's how we learn."
Let’s face it, we’ve all had those moments where we’ve wanted to scream into a pillow because little Timmy decided to use the wall as his canvas. But here’s the thing: mistakes are how kids learn. By saying, “It’s OK to make mistakes,” you’re not just giving them permission to mess up; you’re teaching them resilience. And let’s be honest, we could all use a bit of that, especially when the Wi-Fi goes down.

2. "In our home, no one gets in trouble. When things happen, we problem solve together."
Imagine a world where your kids don’t fear the dreaded “Wait till your father gets home!” Instead, they know that when something goes wrong, you’ll all sit down and figure it out together. It’s like being part of a mini United Nations, but with more Lego and fewer suits. This approach not only reduces stress but also teaches kids valuable problem-solving skills. Plus, it’s a great excuse to break out the biscuits.

3. "It's always safe to tell us how you feel."
Kids need to know that their feelings are valid, even if they’re crying because their toast isn’t shaped like a dinosaur. By creating a safe space for them to express their emotions, you’re helping them develop emotional intelligence. And let’s be real, in a world where adults still struggle to say how they feel, this is a gift that keeps on giving.

4. "Let's work through this together."
Life can be tough, even for little ones. Whether it’s a tricky maths problem or a fallout with their best mate, knowing they’re not alone can make all the difference. This phrase is like a verbal hug, reassuring them that you’ve got their back, no matter what. And who doesn’t love a good hug?

5. "I will always love you, no matter what."
This one’s a classic, and for good reason. It’s the parenting equivalent of a safety net, letting your kids know that your love is unconditional. Whether they’ve aced their spelling test or accidentally set fire to the kitchen (hey, it happens), they’ll always have your love. And let’s be honest, that’s the kind of security we all need.

6. "Your opinion matters. Your voice matters."
Kids need to know that their thoughts and feelings are important. By valuing their opinions, you’re helping them build confidence and self-esteem. Plus, it’s a great way to get some fresh perspectives. Who knew that a 5-year-old could have such insightful views on why broccoli is the worst?

7. "Trust your inner voice."
Teaching kids to trust their instincts is like giving them a superpower. It helps them navigate the world with confidence and make good decisions. And let’s face it, in a world full of conflicting advice (looking at you, parenting forums), trusting your inner voice is a skill we could all use.

So there you have it, folks. Seven simple phrases that can make a world of difference in your child’s life. Remember, parenting isn’t about being perfect; it’s about being present. And if all else fails, there’s always tea and biscuits. Now, go forth and be the emotionally safe parent your kids deserve. You’ve got this!